AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after she refused to go on a nice date I planned because it was on a Wednesday?
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I 27M recently hit a small parlay win and decided to do something special for my girlfriend 25F
We have been together for almost a year and things have been good but she always says she wants me to plan more thoughtful dates
So I booked us a reservation at this really nice restaurant she always talks about
Hard to get into
Amazing chef
I spent $800 total on the reservation
Drinks included
It was for a Wednesday night because that was the only time I could get a table
I told her it would be a surprise and when I finally revealed the plan she looked disappointed
She said Wednesday was a bad day for her
She has work early the next morning and she would rather do something on a Friday or Saturday
She said she would rather do “a multi event thing” like dinner then a show or bar hopping
And asked if I could cancel and reschedule
I explained that this was a special reservation and the timing could not be moved
Also that I could not afford to do something like this without the parlay win
She said she appreciated the gesture but still would rather do something else on a weekend
No compromise
No let’s make it work
Just flat out no
That made me feel like nothing I did would ever be enough
Like it was more about the vibe than the effort
So I told her if this is how she reacts when I try to do something special then maybe we’re not right for each other
And I ended it
Now my friends are saying I overreacted and I’m lowkey thinking I might have
AITA for walking away over this?
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