AITA for telling my (23F) boyfriend (38M) that I won’t cook for him until he marries me and buys us a house?

My bf and I have been together for almost 3 years and we have a 5 month old baby together. I’m a SAHM, I dropped out of college to take care of him because we can’t afford daycare. It was an accidental pregnancy, and abortion wasn’t really an option since we live in a state where it’s banned after 6 weeks and I didn’t find out that I was pregnant until 7 weeks. I can’t drive and my bf said he wouldn’t drive me out of state because he wanted our baby.

For the last couple of months my bf has been asking me to cook more. The problem is that we live in a tiny studio apartment and my baby is very clingy. He screams pretty much any time I set him down unless he’s asleep, and when he’s asleep I usually use that time to either pump, do other chores like laundry and cleaning, or catch up on sleep myself. Since it’s only one big room, I can’t get away from the screaming, and not only does it kinda drive me crazy but it also makes me feel bad hearing my baby in distress. He wants me to hold him or he screams, thus I end up spending the majority of the day holding and playing with him so it’s hard to get other things like cooking done.

Yesterday evening my bf got home and was upset that I hadn’t cooked for him. We argued and he called me lazy and entitled for being home all day while he works yet not cooking for him. I explained to him the above about it being hard to get much done in a tiny studio apartment with a screaming baby, and reminded him that if it were up to me, I’d probably still be in college and I wouldn’t be financially dependent on him, but he really wanted our baby and he wouldn’t drive me out of state.

He tried guilt tripping me about me not wanting our son, which hurt because I did want him and I love him, I just don’t think that we were in the best position to have him when we did. He then doubled down on calling me entitled and selfish, so I told him that I’ll cook for him once he marries me and buys us a house so that I can have an actual kitchen to cook in and table to set. He got mad and stormed off and ended up sleeping in his car.

I feel like I was justified in what I said because he wanted me to have our baby and stay home despite knowing that we’d struggle to afford it, but I also do feel bad because he does work hard to support us. AITA?