AITAH for not re-heating dinner for my husband after 10?
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I became a stay at home mom recently. It’s a decision that me and my husband agreed upon. However, I have set limits on how much I’m required to do and for how long, because I feel like even though I’m a wife and a mother, I’m still a woman who needs time and space to look after myself. I can’t take care of my family when I can’t even take care of myself. So I told my husband that at 10pm I’m done with chores and that He shouldn’t expect me to do anything after that. He was like yeah whatever you say.
Last night, he had to work a long shift and came home at 10:15. I was in the bathroom applying a face mask when he came and asked that I reheat his dinner. I said no, he asked why not, I told him to check his watch and he would know. He paused then laughed and said I was being ridiculous. I said we had an agreement but he argued that I was acting manipulative and selfish. We started fighting verballing and then he ended up texting his mom telling her about what I’d done (or didn’t do for that matter). She started texting me basically lecturing about how selfish and petty (about the 20:15 thing) and said I was setting a bad example for my daughter and teaching her to become self centered and selfish. I decided I wasn’t gonna talk to her and my husband has refused to even stay at home and went to a friend’s house.
I feel horrible! Maybe I shouldn’t have done this to make a point but we had an agreement. Aitah?
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