AITAH for not sharing anything with my wife after she opened our marriage?

My wife(40) and I (40) are in an open relationship and not by my choice. She gave me an ultimatum, either divorce or poly. I don’t want a divorce because of kids so it’s poly.

It’s been few days and I have come to certain conclusions. I want everything separate. She already pays half of everything so it’s not a big problem.

I don’t want our accounts shared. So I have decided to separate them. I want our bathrooms to be separate, I want our rooms to be separate.

I don’t want to do anything that will in any way benefit another man. I want her to buy and cook her own food because I don’t want her to gain energy from food I made or bought and use that energy to fuck other men.

I don’t want to make coffee for her if it makes her feel better every morning and use that feeling to benefit other men.

I don’t even want to talk to her because I may make her feel good and another man benefit from it. I want our communications to beby text.

I don’t want to know if she is sick or anything. I don’t want to know about anything. I just want her to exist in the home and not take anything from me.

So I took her shit to the separate room and told her my conditions. I also told her that I want separate bank accounts and I am not answerable to her about my money and she can do whatever she wants with her.

Now she doesn’t want to leave me alone. Wants to talk about it and figure things out. I am not interested.

Nothing I want is unreasonable in any way. I just don’t want to benefit another man in any ways.

Edit: stop telling me to divorce, I am not gonna be the one to disrupt the lives of my kids. I don’t believe kids are better off being shuttled around every two days.