AIO had my grandma pick me up at 2am from my boyfriends house

I (22F) started seeing this guy (30M) about 2 months ago. I was previously in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship, so it’s hard for me to tell what’s acceptable in relationships or not.

He picked me up from work at around 11 PM after I worked a 13 hour shift. He was excited for us to spend the night. I have a physically demanding job, so I was in a bad mood because my feet and legs hurt. I was also hungry so I may have been slightly more sensitive than normal.

We got into an argument because he said I was in a bad mood and he could tell because of my short responses. I will admit I was probably being a bit of a brat. Mostly because he wouldn’t turn down the video he was watching on his phone and I really wanted to sleep.

He said my reaction (getting annoyed and huffy) made him uncomfortable. At that point I was so tired and offered to leave. The argument escalated and he raised his voice and got in my face, which caused a trauma response. I felt unsafe and like I absolutely had to leave.

I called my grandma (she raised me so basically my mom) to pick me up. I live with her currently. She immediately said she was on the way. The only issue was that she couldn’t get past the neighborhood front gate.

My boyfriend then had to drive me up to the gate (about a 5 min drive). The entire ride was spent with him screaming profanities and horrible things at me. I sat hunched into my seat and couldn’t speak because I was scared he was going to hurt me.

As soon as we pulled up to the gate I ran out of the car into my grandmas truck and we drove away. The tint is very dark, so I’m assuming he couldn’t see her in the driver seat.

These are a very small portion of the texts that followed. They are in order, but I didn’t want to include any that were extremely identifiable. I’m scared that he might be right and that I overreacted and caused problems for everyone I care about. Please tell me. If so I will do my best to make it right.

I’m sorry if this was confusing or hard to read, I really did my best I’m sorry.