AIO – my boyfriend hit a pole with my car and this was our text enchange

My boyfriend uses my car for door dash and takes me to work.

Tonight he text me and asked if I’d call him. I did before i started my rounds at work. He said he hit a pole on the front driver’s side on the bumper and it’s damaged.

I got annoyed because I’m constantly having to tell him he’s pulling up too close to shit. He’s scraped the under side of my car, multiple times, by pulling up too close to the parking curb things. Signs in front of parking spots.

Because this is a pole in front of him, idk the situation but to me, it’s careless. It’s a stationary object and he told me he was trying to turn around somewhere.

Afterwards I did apologize again for getting mad. I just know im an asshole for letting people use my car because each time I have, they’ve fucked it up in some way.

I am the light green texts, he is dark green and he is the long wall of text.

Context for the other part. When he first started door dashing and using my car, I got nervous because he sleeps often at 4 or 5 am and i get off work at 7am so I was texting him around 4am one night to make sure he was awake and he got pissed and told me to figure out how to comfort myself if I was nervous about him not showing up.