AITA: My husband will invite his family and friends over without telling me until that day. He then expects me to clean, run to the store and prep/cook everything. I finally just decided to leave the house the last time he told me because I only had 4 hours till their arrival. He canceled.

The thing is, his family is constantly judging and talking about each other, so when he says “It doesn’t matter, they don’t care…” I know, and he knows, he’s full of it.

Also, it’s not just tidying the house. We are not regularly stocked in food or drinks to have people over. When I got home, I asked what he was planning on having for dinner, and he responded, “I don’t know, I guess it’s good that they aren’t coming over anymore.”

Now he is sulking, saying I am the problem because I can’t go with the flow. I have told him multiple times I just need a couple days notice to get things in order. But he insists I am just difficult, uptight and uncooperative.

AITA?