AITAH for walking out when my girlfriend’s dad tried to test me like some kind of job interview?

So, I (30M) have been seeing Maya (27F) for a little over two years now. Things are good between us, but her dad… he’s not exactly my biggest fan. He’s one of those guys who thinks he needs to “test” me to see if I’m worthy of his daughter, and honestly, it’s getting old.

This weekend, Maya invited me to her parents’ house for dinner. I didn’t want to go at first, but Maya really wanted me there, so I agreed. It started off fine, but then, as usual, her dad started with the comments. I’m a graphic designer, and he’s always saying things like, “Is that even a real job?” or “What do you do, just move things around on a computer all day?”

I was trying to brush it off, but things got worse when he asked me to help him in the garage. I thought it was just some small thing, but then he handed me this ridiculously heavy toolbox and said, “Let’s see if you can handle it.” I told him I wasn’t dressed for it, but he just smirked and said, “Figures. You don’t look like you do much manual work.”

It was like he was waiting for me to do something wrong. When we went back inside, things didn’t get any better. Her dad made this comment about how I probably don’t even know how to fix a flat tire, and her mom joined in saying, “Bet you’re the kind of guy who orders takeout every night, huh?” The whole table laughed, and Maya was just sitting there, kind of giggling along with them.

At that point, I couldn’t take it anymore. I snapped and told her dad, “I’m not here to prove anything to you. If I loved fixing cars, I’d be a mechanic, not a designer. I don’t need a ‘test’ to show I’m good enough for your daughter.”

The room went dead silent. Her dad got all defensive, saying I was being too sensitive, and Maya got upset with me too. She said I should’ve just gone with the flow and not made a scene. I couldn’t handle it anymore, so I just grabbed my things and left.

Now Maya’s barely talking to me, and I feel like maybe I went too far. But I just don’t get why her dad can’t respect me. AITAH?