AITAH for wanting to take a break from my wife after she emasculated me in front of our friend group?
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My wife and I have been married for 10 years and we have 3 children aged 7,5, and 3.
Last night, we invited a few of our college friends and their families over for dinner. We all had a blast, there were drinks, and we were all pretty drunk. My wife then made a comment which pretty much emasculated me. I don’t remember what the context was, but my wife was joking about how even though I was far from big, I get the job done and our 3 kids were evidence of that. A couple of people laughed, but most people got quiet and it was sort of awkward, and my wife guiltily looked at me. She had just exposed an extremely private detail of my body to our entire friend group.
When all the guests left, I did not want to speak to my wife even though she wanted to, and I slept on the couch. This morning, my wife apologized for what she said last night and even cried, but I told her I just want to focus on our kids and I don’t want to speak to her. She horribly violated my privacy and I just don’t feel comfortable or safe with her.
AITAH if I want to take a break from my wife? I don’t know about a divorce, but I really can’t look at my wife the same anymore. My kids are obviously my priority, but I just don’t feel like speaking with my wife or even looking at her. I feel nothing when I see her or when she apologizes and cries, and she has cried a lot today.
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