Leg tattoos feel too bold and not me anymore.. what now?

Hey everyone,

I’ve reached a point in my life where I just don’t identify with the tattoos on my legs anymore. They feel way too oversized and dark, and honestly, I’m starting to panic a little about how to move forward with them.

I’ve been thinking about laser removal maybe trying to fade them as much as possible but I know it’s probably going to be a long, expensive journey before I feel comfortable showing my legs again.

So I’m wondering: What are my options here? Could fading them partially and doing a cover-up work? What kind of styles could help soften the look?

I’d really love to go for something that feels more feminine and less intense. I actually like old school/traditional tattoos, but it feels kind of hopeless now. Would it be possible to incorporate heavier blackwork or something more ornamental without it looking too harsh or, well… trashy? I just want to feel beautiful and confident again.

If you know any tattoo artists who are especially good at creative cover-ups or turning bold pieces into something softer and more cohesive, I’d love recommendations! I’m based in Sweden but willing to travel within Europe for the right artist.

Any thoughts, experiences, or creative ideas are super welcome. I feel a bit lost right now.