My wife went out to lunch with a guy she met at the gym. I think this is a huge no no. AIO?

My (39M) wife (39F) and I have been together for 14 years, married for 11. I’ve been cheated on in the past several times so I’m very sensitive to any behavior that could be construed that way.

My wife goes to the same gym 5 days a week and is always there when they open at 5am. It’s a serious thing for her. I personally go 3 days a week, but a different gym.

Needless to say conversations have been struck up with her by various people for the last 5 years or so. One guy in particular who is divorced, and 15 years older started being friendly to her a while back (not sure how long exactly). A conversation arose about a good lunch special at a steakhouse in town and it became an ongoing thing: “You gotta try this pork chop,” etc…

Well on Friday afternoon she went to lunch with this gentlemen and then when she came home she mentioned that her leftovers were from this place and that she went with a friend. Never said anything about a work friend so I pressed a bit more for curiosity’s sake.

She told me what happened and swore up and down nothing happened and she’s not interested in that way.

I will say our marriage has had its ups and downs, but the ups were way higher than the downs.

My wife has given me 0 reason in 14 years not to trust her…however the circumstances are quite suspect.

What does everyone think?

Edit: so many comments! I am trying to catch up but I have very little time.